The List My Guide! Dos & Don’ts while Dating.
Thanks for joining me again, welcome to all my new readers your awesome! Hope your all well you and your families are enjoying life taking the Good with the Bad… Well it’s the continuation of me spilling the beans 🫘 about my dating experiences on and off line so let’s just get involved.
So let’s get this right in all you do good or bad judge by others or not we must all have restrictions, give ourselves the room to have boundaries that we set not because of others nor the beliefs pasted by inheritance but by choice. Out of self respect and love ❤️ we must have boundaries we don’t cross SIMPLE!
Now let’s get to internet dating Gossip 😂😂
The rules I have some are for safety some are out of compulsive ways some are the generic rules on the sites mostly they are what I desire in a partner. Although as stated in my last post I dived into deep research you can find love on the internet as there is bad but so is there in everyday life. Technology is apart of society now.
My Listy Wisty A.K.A My Do’s n Don’t’s online & Off when dating!
- I Don’t Give Out My Details Right Away
- I do Put my Instagram Profile there
- I don’t talk to people who don’t want what I am looking for
- I don’t speak to men with children/ married
- If they don’t Drive & can’t pay my taxi I don’t meet them
- If they can’t speak without sexting nah
- If their profile ain’t properly filled out no
- I do get rude nor be disrespected
- I keep things interested
- Stay focused that’s why I can write ✍🏾 this 365 Days later
- If they can’t hold a conversation then No
- If they refuse to take me on a date Bye
- Sometimes I try to do as I say so I break some of my rules
- I do not get attached
- I do not allow them around my kids
- I do drink sometimes
- I refuse to Pay for Men
- I Don’t Lie Nor Act Different to how I Am around everyone else
- If they meet my kids I watch whom ever like a stalker
- I stick to what I say
- If you can’t get on with my kids my feelings aren’t important so think of yours
- I make sure am not intoxicated/ while having fun
Lols bet your thinking wtf 😳 long Ass list 😘😘 remember boundaries however I did state last time don’t expect me to always have made the best calls lolzzzz! However not time for that yet.
Why do I have limits to what am doing dating, finding a partner requires meeting strangers, so I take the general advice given on these sites n then some why NOT! My safety, emotional welfare are my first, my main priority.
My children’s security n safety are paramount, so I don’t just take generic advice as dating sites are a business so they want to protect their reputation however they can’t vet users intensively it’s invading privacy so it’s our responsibility first to make sure we are safe even while living recklessly.
No company can get it right always not one person or thing even machines fail without proper check & servicing sometimes it best to lay a strong foundation.
I don’t drive but the taxis know me the drivers and operators from multiple firms or the men I’ve been with drives just saying I’ve kept this up since 15 I can prove this.
I ain’t dating someone who can’t even pay my taxi but wants to 9 out of 10 times shag me nah plus can’t feed me nah it’s not so much. Plus not call me back. most of them call me back I swear to God n I Wish they wouldn’t like A bad Sh!T I wanna forget lol! Funny how rubbish tries to come bk.
Don’t want a gold digger but want women to give blow jobs first date but you don’t go down or only when it suits you nah LADIES DON’T sell yourselves short hence my Rules. As your gonna find out dealing is easy taking it back ain’t easy for some.
That’s why I have these Rules So to Speak
Sometimes you have to let the change happen however now I am in the driving seat!
Like the Crown Jewels not everyone sees them my children are worth more than the air I breath so NAH NOT EVERYONE CAN BE AROUND THEM BREAKING THE SAME PARAMETERS OF OXYGEN THEY BREATHING 😮💨!
I ain’t dating no man with kids broke that rule once never again plus I have 3 kids already and men normally want kids with us as women so don’t need a bag of them. But now as I’ve met someone who eats my kitty cat good n I enjoy tasting all of that too 🤪🤪 no one way street for me it’s boring 😂😂! I may break that no kid rule again
If they accidentally stay as my good is good good. I think it’s meant to be a one night stand with some of the people I have met but they forget plus even though I sound wild 😛 I take long to get me some so once or twice I’ve fell asleep cuddling the booty call!
Then to my horror am now having to kick them out be theDevil 😈 as they trying to buy shit an now forgot it’s was post to be a booty call nope 👎🏾 bye.
Glad I been Good Kids will believe him or she was my mate am always fully clothed sleeping other end of sofa god NOW MY SON GONE READ THIS HIS 16 thank God.
Always Snitch on myself lol at least am one of the few honest people left FS I mean real from the core not honest only to suite me lol.
Just Coz I say Something don’t Make It Factual or True!
Like in everyday life people will say what benefits them mainly harmlessly like closing a business deal selling yourself by showing your attributes to gain a place in university, to gain a job your interviewing for.
Let me tell you this not just men anyone can say what they want not just because he🤫She says something to you doesn’t mean you believe everything a person you’ve just met says.
Remember you need to 𝙎𝙥𝙚𝙣𝙙 𝕋𝕚𝕞𝕖 𝕠𝕟 𝕐𝕠𝕦 𝕓𝕖𝕗𝕠𝕣𝕖 𝕕𝕒𝕥𝕚𝕟𝕘! It’s important you know wat you want love, hook up whatever just don’t go in confused 😕 makes no sense.
So make sure you check back in next week for some more gossip, the low down share, like and comment please.
Let me know your experience with dating your fails and conquest.
P.s your awesome xoxo Motherhood no Instructions.
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