Hey guys I hope your all doing well, we are now 15 days into the new year. Am loving 2022 Itβs been a pleasure & am thankful to be healthy and alive. Thanks for stopping by!
This week I am going to be sharing all I learnt in 2021, the adjustment Iβve made for my lifestyle to improve what changed in 2019, without that life changing event of my baby being diagnosed with Sickle cell disease I would have never started πΉππ πππππ I would have never started selling Ann Summers nor would I be the πππππ¦πππππ£ I am today.
Am truly thankful for all the amazing women & men Iβve met since embarking on this journey, am also learning & have learnt so much about myself, in 2020 I took an over dose because I was fed up I thought I was letting my kids down and they deserved better than me, I felt that way because I was depressed. Getting diagnosed with Schizophrenia while having three children is scary.
People try to speak bad about parents who post on social media some do it for an outlet not everyone is emotionally damaged by the internet. Like everything else we can have boundaries & limits to what we do on or offline!
Some use it for INSPIRATION
When I see a mother post about her mental Ill health trying to help others who are struggling, it makes me proud because when you live with a severe mental illness expression of yourself isnβt easy. Also articulating how we feel saves lives, so donβt be so quick to judge π¦ it criticise.
People who have terminal illnesses or life threatening illnesses get to speak about it, mental health kills So try to be understanding give others a space that is free from judgement. Itβs ignorant when you comment under our post or make indirect patronising statements about women or men who share their journey. Things like β look telling it to the world for sympathyβ, that is atrociousπ¨ some people are isolated social media is the way they can connect to others.
So I left my dream job where I mentored, coached & supported families, helping to empower them as a whole unit. Supporting them with other professionals & agencies helping them become more independent.
I felt lost but now 2022 I feel lost no more, am loving every moment of being a influencer, finding my feet in a scary but beautiful world π. Yes some people judge more than others but thatβs not my problem Yes Susan keep talking.
Iβve lost some people at first I was sad, disappointed, shocked even angry wasnβt my first emotional reaction but not any more I see my blessings flowing the more I say no to whatβs hurting me the more I walk away from people who are toxic I flourish.
Itβs better to have heart break than to loose everything you have worked for trying to protect & respect people who continue to hurt you. People who lie about you, speak π£ foul of you behind your back, we are not friends if your lying to me. Yes 2021 thought me how to LET GO & LET GOD!
I Do Not Care What You Think About Me!
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Am happy with me, because In my eyes am magnificent, intelligent, too hot for any CRAP! Youuu Heard yes the next time someone tries to bring you down or youβre having a bad day I promise you STOP! πΈπ ππΈπ πΈπ πππ βππ π½πβ πβππ πβππ! Then come back here comment the feeling you had because you just wonβt be able to get annoyed youβll just laugh π most probably a good laugh at yourself Iβve been doing this.
The kids starts playing up β am too hot to be shouting at these kidsβ boom π₯ you let them be kids. Because thatβs what they do Life is too short for some of these stuff.
Itβs up to us to do whatβs right for us, I also had someone die in my house year before last 2020 he had a brain aneurysm in my house went hospital never came back.
I also learnt we Must be resilient to accomplish our goals because life is hard. My two daughters where here when that happened they didnβt see him while the ambulance came as they were sound πΈπ€ππππ‘.
I was crying all the time it was after that I took the over dose I had family members calling πππ police as they misunderstood what I was saying π πππ no one to talk too. Now am starting to realise most of the people I know are proving themselves to be anything but friends with good intentions. If am wrong I will say sorry even punish myself when itβs others who are hurting me so NO I wonβt forgive those who have always been disloyal to me from the start.
P.S What are you #grateful for this year? Stay tuned as I have a few big Announcements to share this year! Xoxo π thanks for reading.
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