Changes In Life

Hey guys I hope your all doing well, we are now 15 days into the new year. Am loving 2022 It’s been a pleasure & am thankful to be healthy and alive. Thanks for stopping by!

This week I am going to be sharing all I learnt in 2021, the adjustment I’ve made for my lifestyle to improve what changed in 2019, without that life changing event of my baby being diagnosed with Sickle cell disease I would have never started 𝔹𝕝𝕠𝕘𝕘𝕚𝕟𝕘 I would have never started selling Ann Summers nor would I be the 𝕚𝕟𝕗𝕝𝕦𝕖𝕟𝕔𝕖𝕣 I am today.

Am truly thankful for all the amazing women & men I’ve met since embarking on this journey, am also learning & have learnt so much about myself, in 2020 I took an over dose because I was fed up I thought I was letting my kids down and they deserved better than me, I felt that way because I was depressed. Getting diagnosed with Schizophrenia while having three children is scary.

People try to speak bad about parents who post on social media some do it for an outlet not everyone is emotionally damaged by the internet. Like everything else we can have boundaries & limits to what we do on or offline!

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Some use it for INSPIRATION

When I see a mother post about her mental Ill health trying to help others who are struggling, it makes me proud because when you live with a severe mental illness expression of yourself isn’t easy. Also articulating how we feel saves lives, so don’t be so quick to judge 🦋 it criticise.

People who have terminal illnesses or life threatening illnesses get to speak about it, mental health kills So try to be understanding give others a space that is free from judgement. It’s ignorant when you comment under our post or make indirect patronising statements about women or men who share their journey. Things like “ look telling it to the world for sympathy”, that is atrocious💨 some people are isolated social media is the way they can connect to others.

So I left my dream job where I mentored, coached & supported families, helping to empower them as a whole unit. Supporting them with other professionals & agencies helping them become more independent.

I felt lost but now 2022 I feel lost no more, am loving every moment of being a influencer, finding my feet in a scary but beautiful world 🌎. Yes some people judge more than others but that’s not my problem Yes Susan keep talking.

I’ve lost some people at first I was sad, disappointed, shocked even angry wasn’t my first emotional reaction but not any more I see my blessings flowing the more I say no to what’s hurting me the more I walk away from people who are toxic I flourish.

It’s better to have heart break than to loose everything you have worked for trying to protect & respect people who continue to hurt you. People who lie about you, speak 🗣 foul of you behind your back, we are not friends if your lying to me. Yes 2021 thought me how to LET GO & LET GOD!

I Do Not Care What You Think About Me!

𝑨𝒎 𝒕𝒐𝒐 𝒃𝒖𝒔𝒚 𝒍𝒐𝒗𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒎𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒏𝒐𝒕𝒊𝒄𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒏𝒆𝒈𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒗𝒆 𝒗𝒊𝒆𝒘𝒔. 𝒀𝒐𝒖 𝒄𝒂𝒏 𝒔𝒂𝒚 𝒂𝒎 𝒍𝒐𝒖𝒅 𝒕𝒐𝒐 𝒎𝒖𝒄𝒉 𝒕𝒐 𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒅𝒍𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒎𝒆𝒂𝒏 𝒕𝒐𝒐 𝒎𝒖𝒄𝒉 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒕𝒐 𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒅𝒍𝒆 𝒂𝒎 𝒏𝒐𝒕 𝒂𝒃𝒐𝒖𝒕 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒐𝒑 𝒔𝒉𝒊𝒏𝒏𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒔𝒐 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒇𝒆𝒆𝒍 𝕊𝕦𝕡𝕖𝕣𝕚𝕠𝕣!

Am happy with me, because In my eyes am magnificent, intelligent, too hot for any CRAP! Youuu Heard yes the next time someone tries to bring you down or you’re having a bad day I promise you STOP! 𝔸𝕟 𝕊𝔸𝕐 𝔸𝕄 𝕋𝕆𝕆 ℍ𝕆𝕋 𝔽𝕆ℝ 𝕋ℍ𝕀𝕊 𝕊ℍ𝕀𝕋! Then come back here comment the feeling you had because you just won’t be able to get annoyed you’ll just laugh 😂 most probably a good laugh at yourself I’ve been doing this.

The kids starts playing up “ am too hot to be shouting at these kids” boom 💥 you let them be kids. Because that’s what they do Life is too short for some of these stuff.

It’s up to us to do what’s right for us, I also had someone die in my house year before last 2020 he had a brain aneurysm in my house went hospital never came back.

I also learnt we Must be resilient to accomplish our goals because life is hard. My two daughters where here when that happened they didn’t see him while the ambulance came as they were sound 𝔸𝕤𝕝𝕖𝕖𝕡.

I was crying all the time it was after that I took the over dose I had family members calling 𝕋𝕙𝕖 police as they misunderstood what I was saying 𝕀 𝕙𝕒𝕕 no one to talk too. Now am starting to realise most of the people I know are proving themselves to be anything but friends with good intentions. If am wrong I will say sorry even punish myself when it’s others who are hurting me so NO I won’t forgive those who have always been disloyal to me from the start.

P.S What are you #grateful for this year? Stay tuned as I have a few big Announcements to share this year! Xoxo 💋 thanks for reading.

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