Hey everyone hope your doing well, wrapping up warm and staying safe. Winter is in full swing right not it’s Cold I do miss summer lol. Nice to see you in 2022 I love your support and I appreciate you joining me here.
Now Christmas is known as the season for good will however in 2022 let’s spread good will all throughout this year we aren’t out of the woods yet with COVID and it’s new variants lives are still being lost to this virus.
Trigger warning ⚠️
At the moment in the news there are so many parents hurting and killing their children it breaks my heart, to see these kids neglected not being saved, missed by the system the people who are meant protect & love them committing these horrific against them. Sickening really that they get all this affection after they die, sometimes life is just Sad.
Abuse is real just because someone is a parent doesn’t mean they are nurturing doesn’t mean they are doing the right thing also as we have learnt over & over parents who abuse lie the best until something terrible happens but they still lie even when caught out they are just sadistic never giving dignity to the children they hurt.
Now let’s spree a thought too the children whom aren’t here. It’s hard being a parent it doesn’t mean you can hurt children it’s better to call children services or get help with your children let them have the chance a proper home with some love and stability surely than killing them.
Each time I read these stories it makes me think what is going on with the world, how do you hurt your children or any child for that matter why someone that can’t protect themselves because your a sick sad individual.
How Are they missed!
When there are all these professionals to protect these children why were they missed because of COVID, like important surgeries are put off but lives are being lost, the schools and nurseries were open so why were the signs caught. I tell you why because the professionals are human beings and have problems like the rest of us some take these issues to work and it causes them to not make the correct decision.
Now when I say The pandemic is causing a-lot of other major problems it’s serious am not being a conspiracy theorist it’s a fact it’s being reported on the news you all rely on for what’s happening in Society.
Think about this!
I’m the case of Authur Labinjo-Hughes there were other children present in the house however they were harmed he was killed by his father and the stepmom the parent of the other child who wasn’t his fathers, stop to think what those other children witnessed before he died and they found nothing wrong with what was happening. How do we know that they never said it to any other professional what he was enduring.
It was OK, when we think of children we think of them scared they didn’t think it was OK I’ll tell you they were scared it would happen to them also so they said nothing and now they will have to live with what their parent and step parent did. Sad Shit if you ask me.
I sit here sometimes and the shit I read makes me sick the way they don’t even take responsibility even when they have killed a child like it’s the babies fault please you sick shits. Also it has alot to do with the flaw in the system because they always miss the kids that need help it happens a lot and harass the parents asking for help an abuser doesn’t report themselves to children’s services
Now I’m 2022 we are all ready as we all know what it’s like not to come out of our houses, there is more compassion some can’t see it that’s because their already blinded by hate that’s not our problem they thought we would fight about who don’t get the vaccinations or who has it’s not important we value choice and freedom.
Making a choice not because we are ignorant but because we get the information research on the devices we brought not just from social media but medical facts then choose to get the vaccine 💉 or not simple we aren’t all stupid.
Like the referendum when most people who voted 🗳 us out the European Union, but didn’t even know what the word meant and what is the significance of us leaving the EU meant.
How it will affect our children our trade some just voted because of pure hate and Racism then we are all affected. Like freedom of speech seems a dream as everything is censored or Judged like we AREN’T perfect 😍 hello didn’t you hear.
Mistakes Some aren’t to be made!
Simple some mistakes are to be avoided, no argument no debate. Because some actions can’t be rectified nor forgiven so be careful of your actions.
Sorry don’t fix everything for those of you whom indirectly hurt others you should know what you do as no one knows a man or woman’s heart better than them STOP 🛑 !
If someone acts all holy & innocent subconsciously & consciously you know you have/may have been hurting someone Stop don’t take for granted what you have!
Also stand you ground don’t be bullied or manipulated as NO ONE IS WRONG ALL THE TIME. If you speak to someone & they always find a way to make their actions your fault or because of what you do never Apologise just walk away! Take my advice it’s best for you trust mi (me). Am Jamaican so there yuh guh ( you go ).
As if no one is perfect & it takes two to tango two hands to clap 👏🏾 all this Crap how can everything be on one person, because of how they articulated themselves, or the illness they live with, or whatever the hell gets you off.
What about how that person feels, if you need to say sorry you do not say Sorry but! Why is the BUT MENTIONED also if someone says sorry to you don’t abuse that and be passive aggressive, or FAKE!
There are more important things than to let some chisel away at your confidence & self acceptance making you question whom and what you are, not telling anyone to hurt others but am speaking for those suffering in silence being hurt Year after year the ones who just want this shit to be over watching others pretend while trying to use us as they stepping stones talking about us but you don’t even call us or check in to see how we are.
You should feel worth it, you don’t need to keep up with those kinds of people trust me surround yourself with the positive and you will in turn receive a positive life style. You get back what you put in.
Their Habits cause of lot of the sick shit we see now a days.
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P.S You always have a Choice, life has a lot of surprises you can’t plan for them all, don’t be so hard on yourselves xoxo 💋 Crystal.
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