The Men I’ve dated!
Thank you for joining me I hope you and your families are well. So here is the continuation of my Internet dating guide this week I’ll be speaking about the men i’ve met on Internet dating. As always I appreciate you guys joining me taking the time to read my blogs. This post is a bit late so thank you for staying with me. So yeah let’s jump into this.
So like all this we must be cautious when dating online. Our safety & security is our number one priority, so before you meet anyone I suggest you speak to them for a while before ya meet I’ll explain why I’ve also tested both theories, I’ll let you know why vetting is the best choice you will make.
No I don’t really look at a boy for his colour, however I do you have a type I hear a lot of girls saying that they don’t have a type of boy how can you not have a type it’s like not having a type or types of cuisine you enjoy you just eat anything I’m not on eating anything.
The Charmers
Charmers are men who say all the right things from first contact, letting you know how beautiful you are how breathtaking & how much they would appreciate you being there in their lives. They are willing to take you out on the dates (you get to choose where,when) they are also willing to wait until you are comfortable to meet. However you hear that expression don’t judge a book by its cover. They will text you every day checking up on you charming you. Complimenting on how much of a good job you doing telling you your children have the best mother. Expressing how “I can’t wait to meet you”.
The Texting, calling & constant flattery after they meet you may vanish lol! These men are here to get one thing, they know how to get it that’s why I wouldn’t advise no matter what anyone says to give up the Goods as soon as u meet anyone as then what’s the point in dating. That’s a hook up if that’s what your going for then yeah I’ve had some hook ups with men I didn’t want to go any further with simple I have NEEDS LOL 😂
When you go out they will buy you anything you want if they really like you they will see you an even try to be with you, generally with conditions you just know what your ok with having in your life as a woman before ya get In a relationship with anyone.
Knight in HoodMan Amour!
This is a boy who speaks properly, who will offer to help you with everything you need helping with as a woman he will proclaim he wants to be there for you, support you.
You have great conversations you can speak for hours on the phone. He will try to make every other relationship you’ve been in seem insignificant. Have men who say they want to be with me from the jump when I tell them no they do everything in their powers, however these are Red Flag 🚩 behaviour when someone Man/woman is overwhelming you with their affection as you have just met.
Then your discussions jump from being fun, enjoyable conversations to a tit for tat situation especially with someone whom you just met it’s narcissistic, if I speak to you for over a month and you suddenly forget that we just met start to argue with me when am joking and shout blame me for all then it’s over we ain’t even speaking apart from a hi and bye.
Knight’s in Hood armour. You have to remember that everyone on Internet dating comes with their own personality as DO WE, so you have to make sure you are not inviting and entertaining anyone that is going to be dangerous for you/your kids because some of these people can be paedophiles you know I’m NOT saying this person was or anyone I’ve met THANK GOD.
😂😂 I would Fuck THAT PRAT UP PROBS BE IN JAIL SO THANK GOD!
Sad Story Man
Yes there a men who come with the sad stories to make you feel sorry for them tell me about who died who cheated a lot of things. Nine out of 10 times when you ask them ask why their previous relationship failed it’s the other persons fault. Previous spouse or partner blame everything on those people. I don’t talk to men or women like this I ain’t got time for that it’s a bit Much.
I’ll tell you why it’s a bit much because I don’t find it funny when someone blames everything on another person because no one is perfect kind of takes two hands to clap so does it take 2 to break a relationship. I have had encounters with someone who blamed me for everything when I had a drink saying how I’m drunk I know my limits, mate am 33 I think I know how long it takes me to get drunk and what gets me drunk.
Also I’m not or never have been a blackout drunk I remember everything I do I was accused of calling his children’s name another one accused me of threatening to burn down someone’s house when I said I’ve never done that because the narcissistic man came with emotional problems I was told that I’m rude how I don’t listen how it’s because of the drink he will call me back how I said his kid is disrespectful bearing in mind I’ve never met his kid.
Once I said to one of them that I spoil my children but teach respect. He was like I don’t spoil my kids so you don’t need to it’s bad to spoil kids then I disagreed with what he was saying now I’m shouting I’m rude blah blah blah wow! As it’s internet dating and we are speaking on the phone after all I’ve been through I just pressed BLOCK & DELETE 😂😂🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
So guys I’ll continue this post on Wednesday next week thanks so much for reading to the end, to get up to speed read the 2 previous blogs! This section is long as I wanted to give you on insight into my journey, hit that share Botton! Leave a comment.
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