Hey guys hope your all well mentally, emotionally and spiritually. I’ve been chilling, reflecting on life how I’ve grown over the years. Today I wanna speak about self obsession. Is it bad to be self absorbed. Thanks for joining me again enjoy your read.
self-obsessed
adjective
- excessively preoccupied with one’s own life and circumstances; thinking only about oneself.”even self-obsessed pop stars don’t want the rumour mill to overshadow their music” (Translation found on Google)
Let me say this from now it’s not good to be self centred, so far up your own ass that you start inflicting emotional and mental harm on others. Self obsession is one of several physiological disorder, it breeds/makes for a hostile environment. Self love isn’t the same as being self obsessed! It’s Not good.
Borderline Abusers!
People who are self obsessed/Self centred come with Narcissistic behaviours!
All that is important to them is their point of view you will never get to a agree to disagree stage in any conflict/disagreement as their need to be right every time clouds their moral compass the blame always gets passed to the party. The way you looked at them made them shout at you stupid things like this.
When people are suffering self Absorbency they tend never to see there own faults never seeing the negative effect of what they are doing, how the people around them are being affected by their choices.
No one is wrong all the time so if someone is always negative towards you, the way you speak, eat, sit, walk etc. then I suggest you stop surrounding yourself with he/she it will drain you mentally leaving you an emotional reck. Your never going to make anyone like that accept you for you never mind them being proud of your accomplishments because their main intention is to undermine you.
While trying to gain a confidence boost from your sadness.
It’s good to love your self be observant of your own life and where you want to be.
It’s not good to trample on others while doing you it’s shit. Have you ever done something your proud of then tried to share it with someone you care about and their responses was down right they don’t care, not pride not enjoying your success, “just yeah that’s good” moving straight on to what they are doing or where they are going anything else but be happy for you genuinely that’s an example of a self absorbed person.
That’s their way of saying whatever if you bring the matter up they will deflect may say things like well I was happy for ya I said well done what else do you want.
Maybe even let you know it don’t matter anyways how they feel it’s your life just make sure what your doing is making you proud lol 😂.
Now am grown I’ve realised I’ve lived with been in relationships with a lot of self obsessed human beings even now some are family members. My advice is to just stay away it’s easier said than done sometimes but it’s best to try.
No one is perfect so don’t let anyone put their views on you all the time. Making you feel worthless, not valid as a person because your important, the chances are that person suffers low self esteem they need professional help to sort out their mental/physiological disorder/s.
It’s like taking a job you don’t have the skills nor know how to complete, don’t bother as your health and time will suffer.
You’re not qualified for this nor are you abandoning your partner or friend if they need professional help and not getting it but hurting those around them.
Do not confuse self love with self loathing, they are completely different one is a mental health disorder the other a path to self enlightenment self acceptance.
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