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This weeks blog is a bit of a rant so to speak but as you guys know I use my platform to share to educate and yes to rant about what bothers me living with my mental health while I share my experiences so here goes everything. 😂😂
Have you ever been totally flabbergasted like blowing out the waters can’t believe what the fuck just happened!
Wow well this is really happening to me these days a lot. It’s like I’m starting to rethink my whole judgement on socialising it’s like I don’t know how to socialise how to make friends because Jesus help us some of the people I know plus some of the shit I have been experiencing with new people it is totally out of this world.
You’re okay then boom!
Imagine in one moment everything you know about someone, everything you know can change just for one situation one moment that makes no sense at all… The thing is every think you know everything you believe can be questioned by yourself by the actions of other people from a single act what the hell has life come to.
Why is it when others hurt people they don’t remember memory loss straight away what the hell is that. How can you be having an argument with someone then they remember what you said why are you so terrible but have lost all recollection of what they have said.
Example I call you ugly then you’re like you’re fat Crystal! Suddenly I’m like oh my God how do you call me fat are you like why you call me ugly now am like I did not say that to you I would never say that to you.
Like seriously I’m the one that’s meant to have mental illnesses I’m the one that’s supposed to be struggling with all of these things if you hit someone if you push someone if you slap someone if you’re rude to someone that expect them to be rude back don’t forget what you’ve done like you’ve got amnesia who does that.
Narcissistic behaviours!
You’re not allowed to deflect, you’re not allowed to hurt people while using their personal or medical circumstances against them simple. These narcissistic tendencies that people have needs to stop you need to take a long hard look in the mirror.
Look at the damage that you’re causing to the people in your life the people around you. How do you know when you’re dealing with a narcissist. A narcissistic person will deflect every situation trying to alter the outcome to their favour.
These are the type of people who take no responsibility nor acknowledgement of the things that they do everything they do is because of the way you are how you behave how you spoke to them whatever else apart from taking accountability for their actions.
We hear a lot about narcissism in relationships these traits are also in our friends sometimes in our family members in as well as in our children are in our partners yes.
Advice to deal with a narcissist get the hell away 🏃♂️protect yourself emotionally and mentally I’m telling you now because it ain’t gonna be no good outcome apart from it’s you being criticised nothing positive being said about your. No respect you’re not gonna be treated with any dignity so yeah.
Protecting people!🤔
I’ve protected people I’ve help people, Who did not deserve it I’m telling you now I’ve let people get away with things that I know that they’re lying about see them hurting others I’m just ignoring it because I say that I’m their friend and I will be loyal because friends are meant to be loyal and all of that shit.
Now it’s time to be loyal to myself so say I’m going places with people and I’m doing things with them want to see you start acting funny show me narcissistic tendencies or trying to portrait any of the behaviours that I’ve seen you put on other people or have done on me before piss off. Twice now I’ve got in an argument with someone different people these two people I’ve tried to hit me push me. Then when I protect myself the forgot thar they put their hands on me first.
How bloody convenient that you forget everything you say the fact that you assaulted someone after they protect them self. What’s funny is these two people have tried to say the same thing they’re not gonna give me back my position that they have so when I tell them I’ll keep your shit since you wanna steal my stuff that they say they’re gonna call the police okay call the police.
I don’t go to church
But I’m a tell you something I don’t coincidence I have a Faith that’s why I believe in God I tell you now because when these people live in different cities and everyone is displaying the same behaviour it must be the devil 😈.
I find it funny when you wanna call the police after assaulting someone after trying to steal their staff what do you think I’m gonna run off like Am not a criminal I have no criminal record I will punch you in your face if you try to hit me guess I you thing she should just sit there and just get hit in the face after being abuse no get your shit together as an adult if you have a disagreement with someone keep your hands to your goddamn self. Get Some anger management Learn to stop 🛑 hitting others especially if you can’t fight dumb.
You are in control!
I believe that we all control the outcome of our day no matter what happens throughout the day. I refuse to have anyone affect my space my personal space but mental or emotional space to the fact a point where I can’t be arsed to live.
So I always try to find something positive in the negativity and what are found in this situation extremely positive is a I am at home with my children and I’m not arrested I’ve got a bit of a cold but yeah the police did, but they did you buy anything also I got my money back which This person tried to steal.
Also the pushchair she tried to steal the baby can’t fit it anymore so thank you. Now can dispose of it I am not going to be sad and I am not sad because of some idiot I will advise everyone who reads my blogs to protect yourself from harmful or poisonous people and situations.
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P.s even when things are going wrong find something positive about yourself find something comforting worth living for to keep your sunshine through those stormy days.
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