Hey guys, spring is upon us all and it’s nearly Mother’s Day to all the beautiful amazing Queens out there Happy Mothers Day in advance.
Thanks for joining me this week I hope your all well and your children ain’t driving you too crazy😂 joking hope they are safe. Please remember to follow, share and subscribe, to all my channels.
Are you important?
How do you see yourself? not the perception others have of you!, nor the point of views of family and friends of whom you are! Do you value yourself? Is your belief to take care of others be compassionate, respectful at what cost? Does it sometimes over shadow you and your needs?
Did you know that it’s not value to place others over yourself, if sparing the feelings of other people means your left depress is it worth it? Feeling undervalued, not knowing what you want or questioning yourself?
It’s not good for anyone to feel undervalued and not wanted. Exhausting our minds trying to please others, while no one is listening not even acknowledging the strain or impact it’s having on your mental, physical, emotional or spiritual health? 💋✍🏾💋✍🏾😳
I personally do NOT place others before myself the reason is simply I cannot care for others if I don’t care and respect myself no not only physical protection mental & spiritual protection also. That’s the only way to truly respect and care for others.
To value you is to value me!
You cannot value something or respect someone without learning the meaning of true value which begins with not hiding from ourselves it’s accepting, being able to go of things we can’t control while improving when and where possible. With the opportunities which always presents themselves along our journey vigilance will aid our manifestation process.
Satisfaction comes from accomplishments gained through hard work. Yea it requires restraint coupled with motivation. You can then elevate mentally which lowers the negative impact others have on you. We as human beings forget we are fragile respect your space then and only then will you stick to the judgements and choices YOU make.”
Do not mentally drain yourself, as long someone cares, values you see you equal to themselves working together won’t require exhaustion, they will pull their weight equally while working with you, supporting you as you support them, using the tools shared to improve, learn, grow if this isn’t happening with the situations in your life, weather work or relationships I would recommend you take a deep look, pause think If it’s worth your efforts or are you selling yourself short! Fear keeps us alive and keeps your fire burning 🔥 always remember that! I know that sometimes when people need help or we feel we are in the position to help others it’s heavy on us emotionally to say NO. Truly helping isn’t doing it for me it’s giving me the tools to do it myself sometimes we would get lied too right sometimes we should be more reserved when helping or accepting help from others!
Now I ain’t saying not to be kind, compassionate or stop trusting however make sure you give the trust to those who have earned IT, being kind should come naturally because we all want kindness from others. We all get hurt the doesn’t mean everyone will hurt us also don’t forget exposing yourself to others prematurely especially with people who reserve their feeling and information from you is a clear warning sign not to give away all your trust!
The fact is if you feel uncomfortable to say no when you really want too, then you become depress, withdrawn needing to isolate it’s TIME FOR YOU! it’s not right to spare my feelings and make you sad 😢. We are allowed to not get hurt over and over don’t feel guilty to protect yourself we can’t please everyone. Start with you make you happy set boundaries for you so others have something to live by yes you will make some people Uncomfortable but fundamentally you will be surrounded with people who see you for you, while being there to pick you up as we all fall sometimes! Why should you do that to you SETTLE FOR LESS THAN YOU GIVE OTHERS!
Affirmation for Self Value 😍❤️😍
Today I am just as important as Everyone!
Not anymore or less VALUED than anyone but EQUAL!
I will put me first THAT way I will value everyone!
I have been hurt HOWEVER make pain makes me STRONGER & A ROLE MODLE for others!
I love me FIRST that’s how I love others selflessly because I can love me SELFISHLY!
My dreams will Manifest and Provide mental and emotional FREEDOM!
Fear isn’t bad it will keep my fire burning I live my dreams!
Peace of mind is MINE!
Shout Out to my friend Turfboss and Jayjay gaming!
Thought I’d take this moment to shout out my friend David and say well done on your game stream I love it, we need more role models and examples our young black boys showing them they can always learn something new & excel Please guys check out his Facebook and his clothing store enjoy. It’s lots of fun and the vibes Mad!
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