Got Enough From My Kids!
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I’ll Just Say it! Kids Are Dramatic!
Yes they are (lol) and you know it, people make us feel as though we can’t say it the truth is the truth, it doesn’t mean we don’t love them or we won’t move heaven and earth for them. This is a misconception, if we say or kids are bad we are not good parents well good for anyone who tries to make me or you feel this way. My KIDs are dramatic I am not joking when I say DRAAAMMMAAATIC ❤️
Let me me break it down! 😂
My daughter her name is Jahneveah who’s 1 years old and will be 2 this June. Her thing is to lay right on top of me or have her hand 🤚 in my mouth yes I can not just sit next to her she has to be all up over me even while writing this blog, she’s trying to hold my finger which makes typing harder as ya can imagine, when that doesn’t work out for her she tries to poke her hand in my mouth. “Then the drama starts”. She cries, slaps me slaps herself like man we slap up ourselves as adults “don’t” we will be deemed crazy and dramatic init. Obviously I am stopping her from hurting herself and me so she will calm down I live to get SLAPPED ANOTHER DAY. “I still hear the high pitch screams in my sleep” terrible two’s has started early lol.
The Gap ( Age Difference )
My eldest is 14 nearly 15 years old his the calmest one in the whole family, ( I wish he was calm) yes he plays up like most teenagers. My biggest battle is getting him off the game and to participate in real life so to speak. Fortnite and snap chat are at the centre of his universe, when we do speak his vocabulary consistent of, “huh, k, what, one min please mum” followed by waiting and more waiting. His head always in his phone never knowing what am talking about “mum what, I didn’t hear you” which happens a lot so I get blanked, apart from for money to go out, new trainers or whatever his got his mind on today. Hello son like am still here ya know lol.
Now my daughter is 6 years old Amarni and Devante they still fight as though they are one day apart. The screaming shouting, are the least of my struggles the amount of time I hear mum is enough for me to blow the roof. So yes I need no drama as I stated I have enough from my babies. Amarni cares about dolls, tea parties oh yeah getting her own way, diva 108 if you ask me she will get in a mood and storm off then she needs a kiss straight away. Now I know what your thinking so Does she even enjoy being a mom well yes however I also would like to speak and vent as you should too. Coffee, cigarette and my mates we have a good ole chat about our kids yes you heard me.
We are allowed to vent as parents we can say we are having a crap day and that doesn’t mean we aren’t up for the task it means we are prepared for the task which lies ahead. Remember we are human beings mistakes will be made and toys thrown from the pushchair, brush your self off, remind yourself you are stronger than you think. Capable of so much more, I will say it loud and proud am not a Perfect mother but I do my best. If your having a bad day even a bad week remember find someone who is willing to listen. I am here to say it’s okay sometimes to say f bs this today and start again tomorrow no need for perfection just stability and routine.
New mothers hang in there and enjoy 😉 the babies while they are small get ready for the laughs and the tears make sure you have lots of coffee, maybe you like wine coupled with people who are supportive most importantly enjoy every second you get to rest your gonna need it lol.
P.s keep your drama we are mums in progress with baby stress & drama. Do take care xoxo see you next week xoxo 💋
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